Boundaries are FOR You, Not AGAINST Someone Else
The one thing 99.9% of people get WRONG about setting boundaries:
They think that setting boundaries means “standing up” to someone or “putting your foot down” or confronting the person they’re setting the boundary with.
I hope you let this sink in: SETTING BOUNDARIES DOESN’T LOOK LIKE CONFLICT & CONFRONTATION.
Setting boundaries looks like quiet knowing within yourself.
You will start seeing success in setting healthy boundaries when you stop approaching them from the place of retaliating against someone else’s behavior.
When you can start setting boundaries from a place of self love & self respect, that is when you will see the shift.